The goal with this list of 13 things is to drastically develop your personal skills on an individual and a family level. These things must challenge you to grow as a person. Anything can be added to the list, from learning a new programming language to becoming a beekeeper. It doesn't have to be a new skill either, if it drastically grows an existing skill. The sky is the limit! The important thing is that these skills must be things that will actually used. It shouldn't just be a checklist--this project should change or improve your quality of life, and that of your family and those around you.
Some of the areas I've chosen to focus on are newer things, others are walking in the ancient paths. Both are good. Ancient skills are important to learn because they are being lost. If we don't make a conscious effort to go out of our way to learn these skills they will be lost forever. But it is possible to be so focused on the past that we don't take advantage of modern advancements. I want to have a skill set that reflects both ancient wisdom and modern learning.
At this point my husband and I are planning on completing this challenge as a family--13 goals between the two of us. Many of the areas overlap, but we have our own personal goals within each area. Here are the areas we are planning on working on--my personal goals are in pink, his are in blue, and goals we share are in purple.
1. Nutrition--I want to move our family to more local, grassfed, and/or organic foods. This is not a specific diet or eating plan, but instead a shift to more healthy choices. By the end of the year I want to have phased out most conventional foods.
2. Fitness--I want to complete the couch to 5K program. Once the program is complete I want to run two or three 5Ks each week to stay in good shape. I may add other fitness goals after I accomplish this one, but (for a girl who has never run a mile in her life) just running 5K seems impossibly huge.
3. Writing--I want to improve in both quality and quantity, particularly in the area of creative writing. I'm going to start by spending a month writing off an assigned writing prompt every day for 15 minutes. Once I've done that I'll evaluate the changes and work from there.
4. Painting--I have zero experience in this area, but plan to take a week of acrylic from my grandmother, MamaDoll. She is quite a skilled painter, and I'm really excited to expose myself to a new skill!
5. Photojournalism--I am starting a LifeJournal album, and document the year for our family. This includes both taking pictures and journaling about our life. A second skill I'm hoping to add in this category is a smartphone photography class. I'm not even sure if such a thing exists, but if it doesn't it should.
6. Fishing--One of hubby's hand-print goals.
7. Sewing--Sewing in one skill I'm already quite proficient in, however I would like to add diaper making to my repertoire. We have switched to almost entirely cloth diapering, but those babies are expensive! I want to learn how to sew my own, although there is a fee for the sewing class. While I could just purchase already made diapers instead of paying a class fee, developing a skill will be something I can use for the rest of my life. It will allow me to be independent and is therefore a more effective use of our money than purchasing an already made product. I will also be learning how to design my own patterns.
Training in this area will be non optional for all of my children. However, I can't expect my children to be required to learn a skillset that their mother isn't familiar with herself. That is why "self defense" is a category rather than a single skill for me this year--there are several areas that I feel need work.
8. Hand-to-hand--This will be striking, boxing, Krav or something along those lines. Self defense when I don't have access to a traditional weapon. I will be taking at least three months of training, starting in January.
9. Handgun--This is a prime example of different goals for my hubby and me within the same skillset. By the end of the year he hopes to be the first certified Combat Focus Shooting Instructor in the state of Texas. I want to have a basic understanding of terminology, be comfortable with a handful of different handguns, and have a high level of competency with my (one) self-defense weapon of choice.
10. knife fighting--This is one of hubby's goals. I may join him, but I'm only highlighting the skills I'm committing to do this year. If I add this skill to my own list it won't be till later in the year.
11. Holster making--I'm excited hubby is going to be learning this skill! It could come in super handy considering the difficulty I've had in finding a holster that works for me.
While we trust the Lord as the one who will guard and defend us, we also believe that it is our responsibility to look to the future and be prepared for what may come. “A prudent man forseeth the evil, and hideth himself; but the simple pass on, and are punished” (Proverbs 22:3)
12. first aid--I have never taken a first aid class, and this is a hole in my skill set that needs to be filled. I want to have a good understanding of first aid in general, with a strong focus in any skills likely to be needed for children and in emergency situations.
13. Meals-in-a-jar--We have food storage, that's worked into the budget. Now I want to learn some practical ways to store the ingredients (as meals), and work them into our regular food rotation. I am already proficient in freezer cooking, but I want another option that does not require electricity for storage.
Many of these skills will allow us to be more self reliant--whether in creating our own items instead of buying them, being more confident of our own abilities in an emergency situation, or being able to survive longer without being dependent on the grocery store. This independence is important not only for our own family, but also so that when a crisis comes we will be in a position to aid others as well as ourselves.
These are not the ONLY goals that I have for the new year. There are other things I'll be working on as a wife, a mother, and a Christian that don't fall into the above categories. However, the things above will enable me to become more independent, more self-sufficient, and more competent at all my roles. By purposefully developing myself I will be a better, more skillful woman and that will help me be a better wife and mother.
If you are interested in joining me in this journey to greater self sufficiency, I'd encourage you to check out the website, 13Skills.com. My profile can be found here.